Wish I had this knowledge/wisdom years ago. Better yet if someone would of came running to me yelling fire or danger it would have been greatly appreciated. There is absolutely no way you can remain friends with someone you are ...Read More
Speaking from a female’s perspective, absolutely not. Unless they have a child together, which at that point all communication should be in regards to the child and their upbringing, I see no reason why your partner should be friends with ...Read More
Everything is building blocks. From the moment you meet a person, say hello, engage in conversation you're building a relationship whether you want to or not. It's impossible to walk into a situation already telling yourself you're not gonna care ...Read More
I think I speak for most men when I say, we like to go in attack mode when we really admire a woman. Like many sports, dating also involves continuous interaction of offense and defense. However, when you make the ...Read More
Courtship and dating. If you heard these terms growing up, especially in the church, chances are you should already know what they mean. However majority of people do not know the full understanding of those words. As a “die-hard” Pentecostal ...Read More
“Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.” ...Read More
Sex does not equate happiness in a relationship, but it’s pretty damn important. Bad sex can ruin relationships because it can lead to cheating and, of course, lying. That is when sex can become a massive issue and ruin each ...Read More
Love is in the air! Well at least for some people. Although Valentine’s Day is long gone, it's never too late for you to give love a chance. Most people dread the thought of being committed because there’s always this ...Read More
“I like chicks with severe emotional issues, and so what? It turns me on. Can you blame me? I’m used to the snapping of fingers and chicks with attitudes. Stereotypes of a black chick. I’m missin that.” Although one of ...Read More
In a chaotic world where breakups and divorce rates are on the rise, the last thing you need is chaos in your own relationship. For some of you, the effort you used to win your partner is nowhere near what ...Read More
During a night out with the ladies, 2 shots of Jack and 6 margaritas later, we conjured up the golden question. How do you know if a guy is good in bed? We all know the dating world is not ...Read More
Disagreements will always happen in a relationship but there is a huge difference between fighting fair and picking your battles, and yet we always seem to confuse the two. When you don’t fight fair someone’s feelings could get seriously hurt and ...Read More
It’s like a ping pong ball going back and forth in your mind. Your heart is telling you one thing, your mind another. You know you love this person to the depths of your soul but for the sake and ...Read More
There are some things in life that’s just common sense but nowadays common sense isn't so common. For instance opening someone’s mail is a felony so then when you go through your spouse’s clothes while doing laundry well then that’s ...Read More
I get this question too often and usually when I do people tend to ask as if they are going through some life change. First off, what is “too long” supposed to mean? Is it a few months or a ...Read More
A recent conversation among friends lead me to a question, "What is most vital in a successful relationship?" A male friends suggested sex and my response was, "ofcourse...not!" We all know that, at least I would hope so. If that ...Read More
Relationship. Webster dictionary defines it as the state of being related or interrelated1, the relation connecting or binding participants in a relationship: as a kinship2, a state of affairs existing between those having relations or dealings and finally,3 and finally ...Read More
If there is no title then it is not a relationship and no excuse or brief background history on you two will change my opinion. People say this is a grey area and all relationships are different but I highly ...Read More
Friends with benefits is a cowardly way of fulfilling one’s physical desires without having to commit to anything. The whole idea is ridiculous and to me it’s a cop out for people who are greedy. Yes, it’s understandable that human ...Read More
When someone asks me this I always tell them to define inappropriate. Why? Apparently some people have different definitions of inappropriate. If your boyfriend/partner is commenting on a picture saying “nice”, “looking good” or anything platonic I would say RELAX. I’m ...Read More
Can Inappropriate Commenting On Social Media Sites Be Considered Cheating?