When I first heard this question I immediately thought to myself, ‘ Good luck to the person trying to answer that one’! Never did I expect I would be the one attempting to answer such an impossible question. The reason why women have sex and what we want out of it has said to be “the great question”even by Dr Sigmund Freud himself. First, we have to understand everything a woman does is based off emotion. If you haven’t figured out by now that women are emotional, complicated creatures then good luck trying to navigate your way through a females heart, let alone this article. It’s alarming the way women can use sex as power to get what they want then, with a flip of a switch, sex can be a passionate out of body experience.

So it brings us back to the question; what do women really want out of sex? In my opinion, it’s not what we want out of sex but what we can get out of it. Now, I’m not saying women only use sex as power, what I mean is the feelings we get out of it. Do we feel desired? Satisfied? Pleased? Whatever physical pleasure one can get out of sex, we women seek it.

Now, that’s just answering one part of the question. We are a little too complex for the answer to end there, right? Emotion. Emotion. Emotion. It drives us. So the second part to this answer is this: it honestly depends on the day of the week for us! We differ from men because when it comes to sex, for men, there is no thought process, it’s either they’re aroused or they’re not. They tend to deal with the consequences later. For women, the brain is in the driver’s seat the entire time! The thoughts of what is about to happen or what could happen arouse us.

However, if we are having a bad day and our mind isn’t their mentally then we might not be looking for sex at all! Its reported women who suffer from depression might not have sex for months or years. Sometimes we can be in such a mental funk it’s impossible to turn on our sexual desire. However, we do know how to use our sexuality as a tool when need be. For some women sex can be used as revenge, to get out of a lover’s quarrel or anything that can lead to opportunity. Blame it on our ability to manipulate through sex or blame it on the men who are powerless against it but women have been doing this for many many years.

So, what do women want out of sex? If I had to give an absolute final answer: WHATEVER WE CAN GET OUT OF IT!