A recent conversation among friends lead me to a question, “What is most vital in a successful relationship?” A male friends suggested sex and my response was, “ofcourse…not!” We all know that, at least I would hope so. If that were true, that past girlfriend or boyfriend who rocked your world in the sheets but lousy in trust and in communication would still be in the picture. Then I ask many on our Facebook fan page and got really interesting and accurate insight. Before I start let me stress that in order for a relationship to stay afloat, both parties need to be at an equilibrium.
Trust and good communication is vital and sometimes people forget. I find that many believe its okay to tell a lie every now and then, why? to spare feelings from being hurt. In my opinion those same little white lies lead to bigger lies. When getting to know your partner, you should get a very good picture of the person you’re dealing with. We all know being in a relationship is never easy. One must have tough skin to endure the bad that come along with the good, while also showing consideration and respect for one another. The idea honesty is the best policy is only successfully operational to the couples that are secure within themselves, because with being secure within your own selves makes it easier for the relationship to be afloat allowing good communication to fall in place.
However there is a twist, if you and your partner aren’t secure individuals and in each other it will be harder to be truthful. Communication will fall off and certain truths you or your partner will not be able to handle. Ultimately pants will start catching on fire. The key ingredient in a successful relationship is two people being secure individually and in their relationship. Your partner will love you more for that and good communication will fall into place and trust will be built. Yea, yea, yea easier said then done I know, but the Eiffel tower wasn’t built in a day. With that being said, know and love yourself first before loving another. After asking many on our Facebook fan page the question, “What is the most vital in a successful relationship”, most said trust and others said sex and good communication, evidently I agree to both. There is still hope out there ladies and gents!
Good luck to all lovers and have fun keeping warm this cold winter. Lots and lots of good sex still counts ofcourse!
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