“Follow and Let Him lead, let him lead and he will follow”
Have you ever seen women push around their husbands or boyfriends, where they run every situation? We all know in the world of dating it’s always complicated, but at times I can’t help to think that some people do a great job in making it so awkward and more complicated for them than it really needs to be. Why do I say that? The real truth is, whether you’re a man or a woman, a possessive date partner or friend is like two cars in a head on collision. We also know that an over dominating woman is a lonely one. Follow me on this one ladies.
What I’m about to say may be shocking to many. Others may say, “hell no!” however it’s very much needed to be known by all overly dominating women out there. A man, your man is to be treated as such, that means don’t ridicule him in public. Give him space to take the lead. Now, you may not always agree with the way he goes about certain things, however let him lead, allow him to be a man, your man. Most women don’t realize when a power struggle is an issue, because most of the time they are just weary about what they want. The truth behind it all is that, woman do run the relationship, everything is on our terms. From the first time a guy asks the lady out, to their first date, and to the first time a couple decides to go into intimacy. The final decision is always up to the woman to comply. The man is usually the initiator and when it comes to sex, they’re always good for the down and dirty. However, the pending process lies with the ladies.
As mentioned before, there will be disagreements and the best thing is to approach those loose ends in private and not immaturely in public. Is it ever any one else’s business anyway? The minute someone else is added into the equation mayhem and confusion stirs up, like a dangerous volcanic cloud.
No woman wants a man she could walk all over. If you treat your man as such, where you’re overly demanding and dominating all his moves, the power shift being totally on your side will eventually be the turnoff you ultimately dread or the loneliness you ultimately lie in because you made that bed.
Don’t get me wrong ladies, as a woman we naturally have a mouth on us, and our role isn’t to just looking pretty with an empty shell, but instead to be stern in a way that it leaves an impression. Not in all situations you’ll be able to handle and in the name of emotions, anything can happen. However in a relationship, respect goes both ways, and if respect is generally and mutually in the equation, that is in fact a functional relationship. In allowing him to be your man, he will appreciate you and in return, respect you for that. He won’t let you out of any decisions because then he’ll care as much to want to know what you think, after all you’re supposed to be partners, right? So, if there’s no trust, well that’s a different story from this point on.
Conclusively, “Follow and let Him lead, let Him lead and he will follow.”