I hate to admit it but good majorities of the time they do and let me explain why. There is nothing wrong with being a genuine, loving and caring man. This all stems from discrepancies with what a woman says she wants and her actual pick in men.

You also have to keep in mind some of us women have had so many bad relationships that by the time we meet a good man we come to the relationship with preconceived notions that you may have an ulterior motive. Nowadays it seems that niceness walks hand-in-hand with weakness.

Usually an overly nice guy can come off as being sensitive, unassertive and even a bit boring completely turning off females who tend to crave an assertive exciting male. Ultimately, it comes off as a lose/lose situation for nice men out there.

Not only are you being rejected because you’re nice but also because some females won’t believe you’re actually nice. If I can give any words of encouragement to our “nice” male readers out there it would be this; please don’t ever stop being nice.

We women are a mystery and sometimes don’t even understand ourselves so don’t change who you are. There are women out there looking for niceness and normalcy when we are ready and willing to accept it.

If you are dealing with a female who can’t handle your niceness then leave! More than likely she may not be ready for a mature romantic relationship.